The most wonderful of all things in life, I believe, is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a glowing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing, it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of Divine accident.

During my rough and tumble days, I experienced many a bad falls. Some pained me to death and some scarred me for life. Like Elbert Hubbard once said”God will not look you over for medals, degrees, or diplomas, but for scars.” The growing pain period often saw me picking myself up fast enough only to fall just as quickly; again and again and again. Then I was constantly in a hurry. I may have problem with my high speed balancing, but who the heck cares. Long after my rough and tumble days, I thought I had enough until almost one and a half year ago to this date. I FELL AGAIN. Do I want to pick myself up from this…Hell NO! It was into something so deep that even if it hurts, it sure as hell will “Hurt So Good.” I wasn’t looking… People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost... but I FOUND. Today, I stretch my heart and expand my love so that it touches not only those to whom I can give it easily, but also those who need it so much. Twenty-seven years not too late, I fall in love.

In obscurity for many years, Ziehan touched my heart on the night of 4th March 2004. It wasn’t just any other night for me; it was no ordinary night by all accounts. It may have been by Divine accident, but as good as it got, we met for a reason to live for and with a purpose to die by. I have never met a person whose greatest need was anything other than real, unconditional love. I saw it in her simple act of kindness toward anyone who needs help. There is no mistaking love. I feel it in my heart. It is in the common fiber of my life, the flame that heats my soul, energizes my spirit and supplies passion to my life. It is our connection to God and to each other.

“Love and magic have a great deal in common. They enrich the soul, delight the heart. And they both take practice.” - SirCumALot